You are probably unrealistic as to your expectations regarding an ideal love. If you are a woman, you are completely devoted to your partner, attentive, a bit intrusive even obsessively in love. If you are a man, you are loyal, friendly disposed, devoted to the woman you love but you need to have a sense of freedom. You don’t want to be in any kind of partnership if it implies unconditional devotion to your current partner. If you are free, you will soon fall in love with someone who will be devoted you as much as the you to him/her.